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  • ‘Make My Richness in My Heart’

    ‘Make My Richness in My Heart’

    It has long been thought that emotions are generated by the brain, that they are mental expressions that have their physiological effects within the body, felt as happiness, sadness, confidence, anger, and so on. Research over the last decade, though, has shown that emotional experience proceeds from the function of brain and heart in coordination with the body’s complex physiology. Moreover, the heart is now more and more understood as significant not only in terms of the experience of emotion, but also as an independent processor with an elaborate circuitry involving neurons, neurotransmitters, proteins, and support cells analogous to those in the brain. Such a network equips the heart to work independently of the cranial brain, functionally involved in the processes of learning, remembering, sensing, and feeling.

    Even consciousness is now being shown to involve more than the cranial brain, with research in neuro-cardiology providing some fascinating perspectives on the interaction of brain and heart. According to Dr. Mohamed Omar Salem, professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Science at United Arab Emirates University, “It has long been thought that conscious awareness originates in the brain alone. Recent scientific studies suggest that consciousness emerges from the brain and body acting together; a growing body of evidence now suggests that the heart plays a particularly significant role in this process. The above findings indicate that the heart is far more than a simple pump. In fact, it is seen now as a highly complex, self-organizing information processing center with its own functional ‘brain’ that communicates with, and influences, the cranial brain via the nervous system, hormonal system, and other pathways.”

    When we speak about the heart as the center of emotions or as the seat of intelligence, traditionally it’s been understood that that we are speaking metaphorically, as in the Qur’anic verse “…hearts with which they understand not” (Qur’an 7:179). In fact, as mentioned above, it turns out that the heart is literally a “heart brain” and that the heart and the cranial brain are constantly exchanging information. According to recent studies, the heart sends more information to the brain than vice versa.

    ‘Gently Rolling Hills’ of the Heart

    Purifying the heart takes on another profound layer of meaning. Thinking about the heart in a broader perspective allows for an understanding of moral and spiritual imperatives, as per the verse above, but it also makes sense in terms of health and physical well-being. Negative emotions such as frustration or anger create erratic heart rhythms, increase stress hormone levels, constrict blood vessels, raise blood pressure, and weaken the immune system; while positive emotions such as love, gratitude, and compassion create a heart rhythm pattern that has been likened to “gently rolling hills.” Purifying the heart sounds like a pretty smart thing to do! In the interaction of brain and heart, we begin to conceive of the heart’s function as not just metaphorical but literal, as it plays its central role as a generator and processor, in its own right, of emotion and cognition.

    The Prophet (s), said, “Truly in the body there is a morsel of flesh which, if it be whole, all the body is whole; and which, if it be diseased, all of it is diseased. Truly it is the heart” (Bukhari and Muslim). Working toward knowing ourselves fully involves both mind and heart. But as imperfect humans, we too often think that we should focus our attention on “teaching others how to live.”

    What comes to mind is the teaching story about the old man who was sitting with two friends at a coffee shop. One asked him what he considered the most important thing he had learned in his long life. He answered, “As a young man, I was self-assured, full of enthusiasm, and used to pray to God to help me change the world. Then when I was 40 years old, I realized that my life was already half over, and I was honest enough with myself to admit that I had done little to change the world. So, I prayed to God to help me change the people closest to me, all of whom had so many imperfections and harmful habits. But none of them changed for the better and my relationships became even more difficult. Now I’m an old man and my prayer is simple indeed. I ask God to give me the strength and determination to change myself.” This story is simplified and exaggerated to make a point. We know that one can work on oneself while also influencing others to be better. But if a person is not working on himself as the foundation, then all efforts to impact others will fail. What we have to work on is the entirety of our beings — thoughts, feelings, words, actions.

    Both Brain and Heart

    It is worth repeating that both the brain and heart are involved in cognition and emotion. The interplay of heart and brain is complex, and it is not necessary that we understand in depth and detail how that plays out. What concerns us is the harmonious outcome, being aware of and working on both cognitive and emotional faculties, knowing ourselves through observation and honest evaluation of self.

    Based on current research, we can say that “understanding with the heart” is not simply metaphorical. Without doubt, thought and feeling are both involved in everything we say and do. Thoughts activize and feed emotions, and emotions catalyze and reinforce thoughts. They are two revolving facets of the same perceptual and experiential dynamic. The healthy and effective approach to daily living is one which comprehends and integrates in a balanced way both the thinking and feeling modes. The harmony we are striving for is one in which all aspects of our being are integrated into a coherent, well-functioning, and efficient system. Beliefs, thoughts, emotions, attitudes, behaviors — all different aspects, yet interlocking parts that can create a wholeness and completeness in our lives.

    To Die Integrated

    There is a true story from the life of Prophet Muhammad (s), as related by Dr. Yusuf Al-Qaradawi in “Al-Eman wal-Hayah” that illustrates this wholeness and completeness. A group of thirteen men traveled from Yemen to the Prophet in Medina, seeking to learn as much as they could, and they stayed a number of days but were eager to return to their people and share what they had learned. On the day of departure, they came to give their farewells to the Prophet (s). He called upon Bilal (r) to give them gifts and provisions to take with them, to honor them and be generous with them. Prophet Muhammad asked, “Is there anyone else who has not been given a gift.” They said, “Yes O Messenger of Allah. There is one young man, and he is the youngest among us.” The Prophet said, “Send him to me.” They went to the young man who was taking care of their belongings and caravan and informed him that the Prophet asked that he come to take his farewell and get his gifts. The young man went to the Prophet and said, “O messenger of Allah, I am with the group from Bani Abdhyy.” The Prophet (s) said, “What are your needs?” The young man said, “My needs are different from my companions’ needs. Although they came desiring to learn about Islam and have done so, and you have given them gifts, indeed by Allah I did not come from my country but to ask Allah SWT to forgive me, to have mercy on me, and make my richness in my heart.” Prophet Muhammad motioned for the young man to come closer, and he put his hand on his shoulder and head and made this du’a for him: “O Allah forgive him and have mercy on him and make his richness in his heart.” Then the Prophet called Bilal to give him gifts as had been given to the rest of his companions.

    Some years later, the same group came to the Prophet in Medina and said, “O Prophet we are from Bani Abdhyy.” The Prophet (s) asked about the young man as he was not with them this time. They responded, “We have not seen anybody like him, and we have not ever observed anyone with his contentment and his happiness. While the people rush to get worldly things, he never pays that any attention. Prophet Muhammad said “Al-hamdulillah (all praise is due to Allah), I pray to Allah SWT for this young man to die integrated.” They were surprised, and a man among them said, “Don’t all people die integrated, O messenger of Allah?” The Prophet explained, “There are among the people those who die fragmented. Their energies are scattered in many directions, including their whims and desires and concerns, scattered in various ways. And death comes to them while they are still scattered and fragmented on these many paths of the dunya.”

    Dying in a state of integration would be reaching the end of one’s life in a state of wholeness and completeness — a state in which whims and desires and concerns have been unified by belief and virtue. The mind is no longer fragmented by internal conflicts, and the heart is calm and peaceful. Such was the young man, with an exquisite contentment and happiness that can only come from richness in the heart.

  • Emotional Nuance Expressed in the Quran

    Emotional Nuance Expressed in the Quran

    There he was on top of the mountain thinking he had lost his mind. He was not sure what to make of the words he heard in the cave, nor of the being that hugged him while uttering those words to him. Later, upon returning home, his wife reassured him that everything would be okay, but the incident still did not sit well with him. The revelations had ceased for quite a number of days but an overbearing sense of sadness led him to the top of the mountain with the thought of throwing himself off. It was at that moment when the being from the cave reappeared, but this time in full form, covering the whole sky with his wings, giving the man glad tidings of prophethood and reassuring him of his truthful nature.

    This is a true account from the life of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) as narrated in Sahih al-Bukhari in Kitab al-Tabeer, describing how the Prophet became overwhelmed with emotion and needed to be reassured by both humans and the Divine to move forward in bringing guidance to the world. The emotion that Prophet Muhammad felt is conveyed in the hadith through a word which is translated as “sadness” in most Quran translations. A further analysis of this word, however, shows us that it is a form of depression which surfaces after a series of difficult events that an individual goes through.

    Anger, sadness, happiness, disappointment, hope, fear, anxiety, and other emotions are all part of the human experience. Human beings attempt to describe various emotions through art, poetry, and other art forms. Yet, to truly “capture the moment” in full effect is difficult. We aim to show in this article that the Quran is unparalleled in precisely conveying the emotional and cognitive experience of human beings, narrating to us the Divine omniscience and claim to our souls.

    Quranic Word Choice Discloses the Human Soul

    The seerah is filled with incidents teaching us how Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) faced many and varied challenges and difficulties throughout his life, and those accounts are very instructive for us, allowing us to feel deep connection to the Messenger of Allah. We should also take note that the Quran expresses human emotion in the most detailed way so that the reader can relate with his or her heart to the book of Allah. We can examine a number of verses to see this.

    Happiness

    Different situations elicit different types of happiness. Though there are several words in the Quran that speak about this emotion, I have listed only four. The first type of happiness is when someone is pleased with an action, decision, or matter, and they are considered “radiya.” The one experiencing this type of happiness usually makes it known to others: “Indeed Allah was pleased with the believers when they pledged allegiance to you [Muhammad] under the tree.” (48:18). This is one of the most common types of happiness.The second type of happiness is “a’sarra.” This is a type of happiness in one’s heart that is caused by some external factor such as someone’s kindness, seeing a pleasing sight, or hearing something that raises one’s spirit. The one experiencing this type of happiness is called “masrur” in the Quran. When the Bani Israel requested Musa (pbuh) to ask Allah to bestow upon them a cow, they specifically described it in the following way: “Its color bright yellow, pleasing to those looking at it” (2:69).
    The third type of happiness, “ha-ba-ra,” is one that honors, delights, and comforts the one experiencing it. It is contagious in the sense that it leaves a lasting effect on even those who simply witness it in another person. After the believers and disbelievers are separated on the Day of Judgment, Allah mentions what the believers will receive and how they will feel if they led a sincere life believing in Allah and doing good deeds: “As for those who believed and performed righteous deeds, for them is a garden wherein they will be extremely happy” (30:15). This type of happiness has a minimum of three aspects of delight reserved for the believer after he enters Jannah. The fourth type of happiness, “is-tab-shara,” is that which is gained from achieving or hearing something pleasing, and the experience of this happiness can be physically seen on one’s face or in one’s behavior and demeanor. In presenting a similitude for the believers, Allah likens their success to a prosperous business deal. He (SWT) mentions that He has purchased the lives and material resources of the believers in exchange for paradise. At the close of this verse, the Quran states: “So rejoice in the deal which you have made. And that is the ultimate success” (9:111).

    Anger, sadness, happiness, disappointment, hope, fear, anxiety, and other emotions are all part of the human experience.

    Sadness

    The Quran uses a number of words to denote various types of sadness. The first I will mention here is “ghamma”
    which can be translated as “distress.” This is a type of sadness that temporarily blocks a person’s ability to see any good in his life or circumstances. This type of sadness can be likened to clouds that temporarily block out sunlight in the sky. Thus, these clouds are called ghamaam. This distress, however, eventually passes, and in this regard the Quran says, “Then after the distress, He sent down security upon you” (3:154). This verse was revealed after the believers had been defeated at the Battle of Uhud, and they were fraught with a deep sense of sadness which took a period of time to overcome.

    “Ha’zi-na” is another type of sadness, and sets in when one has high hopes or plans which are destroyed by external circumstance which appears to have no hope for rectification or remedy. In the Quran, the story is told of Jacob (pbuh) being informed that his youngest son Benjamin was left in Egypt for allegedly stealing. The verse says, “His eyes became white with sorrow” (12:84), meaning his eyes filled with tears. First he had lost his most beloved son, Yusuf, many years ago, and now another son was gone—and both at the hands of their brothers.

    “Ba’Ssa” is another type of sadness, close to the word “grief” in English. The root meaning of this word is to “spread out” or “disseminate.” In essence, this is a form of sadness that lingers in a person and whose source cannot be located. It is a heavier, if not the heaviest, form of sadness in the Arabic language. Jacob said, “Indeed, I only complain of my sorrow (hazin) and grief (batha) to Allah.”

    Anger

    There are four words in the Quran denoting anger. I present here three, and they are levels of the same emotion.
    “Sakhata” is the first level of anger. It is the emotion felt by someone toward his subordinate who has failed to reach a certain objective or has fallen short of an expectation. An example of this word used in the Quran is the following: “So is one who pursues the pleasure of Allah just like the one who brings the anger of Allah upon himself?” (3:162).
    The second level of anger, “ghayzun,” expresses the feeling of one’s “blood boiling.” Though the individual may be in an angry state, he does not act upon the anger or let it take over his senses. Instead, he seeks to extinguish the feeling, as in the verse, “And those that swallow their anger and who oft pardon the people” (3:134). These two traits mentioned in the verse are characteristics of people Allah describes as inheritors of paradise. “Ghadiba” is the general expression of anger, but there is a nuance to note: this form of anger brings with it a form of punishment from a superior being, a chastisement for a specific wrong action being committed: “But those who open their breasts to disbelief, upon them is wrath from Allah” (16:106).

    Hope

    The Quran recognizes various types of hope. “Amniyatun” are hopes that lack a practical basis in reality and have very little chance to materialize. The person who indulges in this type of hope has not done what is necessary to bring his hope to fruition, or they are simply engaging in wishful thinking: “And they [People of the Book] said, ‘None will enter paradise unless he be a Jew or a Christian.’ Those are their false hopes” (2:111).
    “Wadd” is the hope of attaining something which is propelled by the love of that object or person. It can have a positive or negative connotation based on circumstance or context: “Perhaps those who disbelieved are wishing that they were Muslims” (15:2).

    Conclusion

    In the Book of Allah, we can study and come to understand the many nuances of emotion that are part of the human experience. Whenever we are facing difficulties or enjoying blessings, we should stop and remember that Allah imbued human nature with these emotional capacities, and only He provides the way, Islam, that allows us to effectively cope with negative emotions. And on the other hand, it is also only Allah Who cautions us about getting carried away with the things that brings us happiness so that we might avoid arrogance, greed, complacency, and other immoderate reactions to good fortune.
    Also, keep in mind that many times we do not know the wisdom and the mercy that is potentially yielded through our suffering and pain. May Allah make us of those who read His Book and seek to understand ourselves through it, in light of the Divine guidance He has gifted to humanity. Ameen.