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  • The Cave: A Place for Solitude and Potential Transformation 

    The Cave: A Place for Solitude and Potential Transformation 

    The world is a prison, and we are the prisoners: Dig a hole in the prison and let yourself out! – Rumi

    Caves are hollowed portions of the earth that evolve over time, providing shelter within their underground or elevated spaces and offering protection from the elements. In Islamic texts, the cave offers a transformative potential, a place for muraqabah (meditation), dhikr (remembrance), and fikr (contemplation) – all practices that serve to draw a believer closer to their Lord. An important side note is that Islamic meditation always has the intent of deepening the connection to Allah SWT; whereas Western meditation can have various intentions, some of which have nothing to do with spiritual or religious objectives. Moreover, muraqabah, often translated as “meditation” as that might be the closest word in English, is more aptly described as a kind of watchfulness or mindfulness, that is, a vigilance about one’s thoughts, intentions, emotions, words, and actions. It is a form of self-awareness that can be practiced in solitude; it can also be practiced throughout one’s daily life as it is a striving to keep Allah’s presence uppermost in one’s awareness.

    There are several instances mentioned in the Qur’an, the ahadith, and in the seerah, in which people, including the Prophet, himself, found themselves secluded in a cave. On every occasion, the cave provided the isolation its occupant needed to deepen or restore his faith and continue fulfilling his purpose.

    The story of Islam as we know it began in a cave. When Muhammad ibn Abdullah ibn Abdul-Muttalib, peace be upon him, reached the age of forty, he regularly retreated to a cave called Hira on the Mountain of Light, Jabal al-Nour, on the outskirts of Mecca. He would spend his time there in reflection. His later wife, Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, said that the love of seclusion was bestowed on his heart at the time. She narrated, “He used to go in seclusion in the cave of Hira where he used to worship continuously for many days… until suddenly the truth descended upon him while he was in the cave of Hira” (Sahih Bukhari).

    Indeed, for Muslims, withdrawing from the commotion of everyday life to find solitude somewhere, or even just immersing oneself in nature, to reflect on the creation, is a means to connect with the Creator. Taking time to engage in periods of isolation and contemplation can reveal the trivialities of this world and the vastness of the Hereafter. Yet, as part of striving to achieve the goal of ihsan, or excellence in worship, a person must find a place where he or she can be alone and seek Allah’s guidance. The Prophet (s) found the perfect setting in the cave.

    Prophet Muhammad (s) said, “Those in solitude have raced ahead, who are absorbed in the remembrance of Allah. Remembrance has lifted their burdens and they will come on the Day of Resurrection weightless” (Sunan al-Tirmidhi). In the Qur’an, it is mentioned that the hearts of human beings find rest in the remembrance of Allah (13:28). This can take many forms like prayer, supplication, reading the Qur’an, uttering phrases of praise, or reciting the Asma ul-Husna, the beautiful Names and Attributes of Allah.  In a similar hadith, a man went to the Prophet (s) and said, “Which of the people is best?” He said, “A man who strives in jihad for the sake of Allah with his wealth and his self.” Upon hearing this, the man asked, “Then who?” The Prophet responded, “A believer in a mountain pass who worships Allah and leaves the people alone” (Sahih Muslim).

    In his explanation of this hadith, Imam Al-Nawawi said, “This does not mean the mountain pass itself, rather what it is referred to is being alone and isolating oneself. A mountain pass is mentioned as a metaphor because it is usually devoid of people” (Sharh Saheeh Muslim, 13/34 – Al-Munajjid). Like a cave, a pass between a mountain is a place carved out in the earth where a person can wander alone and reflect on life and on his own self. Interestingly, Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar al-Asqalani said that this report indicates that isolation is preferable in the case of one who fears for his religious commitment (Al-Fath, 13/42 – Al-Munajjid). Such was the case of the youth of the cave mentioned in the Qur’an.

    The Shelter and Seclusion of a Cave

    Caves are a recurring theme in Islamic literature, and they serve many purposes. The eighteenth chapter of the Qur’an bears its name, Surah al-Kahf, the Chapter of the Cave. The Arabic word kahf is specific to Surah al-Kahf, only appearing six times in the entire Qur’an solely in this chapter. According to the Saheeh International English translation of the meaning of the Qur’an, however, the word “cave” is mentioned eight times, six of those occasions being in Surah Al-Kahf, while the other two verses that mention a cave occur in the ninth chapter, Surah Al-Tawbah, but a synonym is used. In that Arabic text, instead of the word “kahf,” Allah uses al ghar and its plural, maghaaratin. These two words refer to a small cave, cave entrance, grotto, or even a man-made cave. Curiously, the verses that speak about a cave in Surah al-Tawbah refer to instances during the lifetime of Prophet Muhammad (s), while the cave mentioned in Surah Al-Kahf refers to an event that happened before.

    Surah Al-Kahf was revealed during the Meccan period of the Qur’an revelation – between the 8th and 10th year of prophethood. It opens in the same manner as the first chapter of the Qur’an, Surah Al-Fatihah, with the words Alhamdulillah, all praise is to Allah. Interestingly, Surah al-Kahf is the heart of the Qur’an, it is in the very center of the book. Whether the reader opens to the beginning chapter or the middle chapter of the Qur’an, they will begin by reciting God’s praises. The whole of Surah al-Kahf contains important reflections about how to overcome different trials in the worldly life and the rewards for those who are mindful of Allah. The story of the youth of the cave, however, is an example of how believers can seek protection from corruption, in solitude.

    The cave provides shelter and seclusion that the worshipper seeks in efforts to gain closeness to the Divine. Surah al-Kahf holds a lofty status, not only serving at the time of its revelation as evidence of the prophethood of Muhammad (s) but also providing timeless lessons and protection for its reciters. The Prophet (s) said, “Whoever recites Surat al-Kahf on Friday, a light will shine for him between this Friday and the next” (Al-Sunan al-Kubra lil-Bayhaqi, 5996). Similarly, he said, “Whoever memorizes ten verses from the beginning of Surat al-Kahf will be immune to the False Messiah.” In another narration, he said, “…from the last ten verses of Surat al-Kahf” (Sahih Muslim, 809).

    Allah says in the ninth through tenth verses of Surah al-Kahf: “… Have you thought that the companions of the cave and the inscription were, among Our signs, a wonder?  — when the youths retreated to the cave and said, ‘Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance’” (Qur’an 18:9-10).

    The “companions of the cave” were a group of young men who were believers in monotheism who lived among a polytheist society. The “inscription” was a plaque at the entrance to the cave, placed at some historical point, and told the story of these youth. The surah goes on to explain that they were fleeing persecution and thus they sought refuge in a cave. There were two actions that the youth took to change their situation – the first was to remove themselves from the threat to their faith and the second was to pray. There was a physical and spiritual effort to connect with their Lord and the cave provided the sanctuary they needed to protect their spiritual and religious devotion.

    In the case of the youth, they were living in a society that was devoid of faith in the One God and that oppressed those who sought to connect with their Divine purpose. Continuing to stay in that land was guaranteed destruction. Allah mentions in the Qur’an that a person who is unable to practice their religion freely should find a way to leave. He says, “Indeed, those whom the angels take [in death] while wronging themselves — [the angels] will say, ‘In what [condition] were you?’ They will say, ‘We were oppressed in the land.’ The angels will say, ‘Was not the earth of Allah spacious for you to emigrate therein?’ For those, their refuge is Hell, and evil it is as a destination” (Qur’an 4:97). The cave served as the first step towards migration for the sake of Allah – to cultivate and maintain their faith.

    Like the youth who sought refuge in a cave, Prophet Muhammad (s) was disturbed by the ignorance and corruption of his time. The Cave of Hira served as a place of solitude and contemplation for the Prophet (s) prior to prophethood. On another occasion, a different cave served as a place of refuge when he and Abu Bakr as-Siddique, may Allah be pleased with him, fled Mecca due to the persecution by the Quraish polytheists. Allah mentioned this story in the Qur’an: “If you do not aid him [the Prophet], Allah has already aided him when those who disbelieved had driven him out [of Mecca] as one of two [the Prophet and Abu Bakr], when they were in the cave and he [Muhammad] said to his companion, ‘Do not grieve; indeed, Allah is with us.’ And Allah sent down His tranquility upon him and supported him with forces you did not see and made the word of those who disbelieved the lowest, while the word of Allah, that is the highest. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise” (Quran 9:40).

    Remarkably, this is one of the two other verses in the Quran that speak about a cave, using a synonym. The cave that housed the Prophet (s) and Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with him, is called “Ghar Thawr” located on Jabal Thawr, located in the southern part of Mecca. Ghar Thawr is a small cave they had to crawl into, unlike the cave mentioned in Surah al-Kahf that was able to house the youth and their dog. Both caves served the purpose of providing a hiding place and shelter, as well as having a miraculous outcome – being used to save their inhabitants from persecution and death. They also served as the haven in which its inhabitants deepened their tawakkul, trust and reliance on Allah.

    In contrast, the word cave in its plural form is mentioned later in the same Surah at-Tawba, where Allah says, “If they [the disbelievers, Quraish] could find a refuge or some caves or any place to enter, they would turn to it, and they run heedlessly” (Qur’an 9:57). In this verse, Allah mentions a hypothetical situation in which disbelievers, in a desperate attempt to avoid Divine wrath, would try to hide anywhere, even attempting to crawl into a cave. However, Allah does not provide them with this protection, nor a hiding place, and much less a miracle. This should be taken as a warning that the cave is only a place for solitude, for refuge, and/or for transformation for those who seek to purify their own souls and pray for assistance from the Almighty alone, and with utmost sincerity.

    Human beings who live in modern cities may have to find solace and seclusion as best they can in their own surroundings. A mosque, a hiking trail, or a room in a house can take the place of the cave as the location of introspection and enlightenment. It is a matter of attempting to temporarily abandon worldly affairs and concentrate completely on connecting to the Divine with a sincere heart. Perhaps through this practice, a person may be able to see the world more clearly and concentrate completely on his or her purpose.

  • Fulfilling One’s Potential Through Tafakkur (Reflection)

    Fulfilling One’s Potential Through Tafakkur (Reflection)

    “You should have some proportion of solitude or else you will become heedless.” -‘Umar b. al-Khaṭṭāb (r)

    Among the greatest blessings God has bestowed upon human beings is the ability to reflect, to contemplate. The blessings of utilizing rational thought, thinking fully and deeply, introspecting, and conceptualizing — these inform the beneficial ability to immerse oneself in contemplation about a belief or idea or perception, striving to penetrate beyond its apparent meaning or value.

    It does not make sense to confine our potential to goals that attach to this world with no investment in the life to come.

    Hallmarks of Western civilization are belief in the human mind’s capacity for rational thought and the human condition being imbued with the right to dignity, well-being, and fulfillment. Contrary to anti-theistic claims, Islam emphasized both of these more than 14 centuries ago. Islam does not disregard the use of reasoning and reflecting in favor of blind faith. Instead, the ability to reason and reflect is praised by Allah in the Qur’an and is considered to be a faculty that has the potential to bring one closer to Allah and the truth. Islam, thus, is a rationally justified belief system, and the correct use of reasoning, alongside other faculties, brings one to Islam. Furthermore, the ability to reason and reflect opens the door to self-actualization – becoming the greatest version of oneself — in numerous ways. There are countless things to reflect upon, but here are a few foundational ones:

    Reflecting on the Oneness of God, the Creator of the universe, and that He is source of blessings

    “Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, apparent and hidden? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Scripture” (Qur’an 31:20).
    “And every bounty that you have is from Allah…” (Qur’an 6:53).

    While we recognize the great benefits of a “productivity” culture in offering technologies, optimizing resources and methodologies, and encouraging lifestyles of goal-orientation, striving, and efficiency, one can never fulfill their greatest potential without the blessings of Allah, the source of all blessings. “Blessed is the One in Whose Hands rests all authority, and He has power over all things” (Qur’an 67:1). The Kingdom belongs to Him, and all blessings come from Him, and the believer regularly recites Surat al-Mulk (The Sovereignty), the 67th chapter in the Qur’an, and asks God for blessings while expressing gratitude for everything He has bestowed upon him.

    Reflecting on the fact that Allah created the universe with purpose, and recognizing one’s need for God in order to fulfill one’s own purpose

    “Indeed, in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the alternation of the night and the day are signs for those of understanding; those who remember Allah while standing, sitting, and lying on their sides, and reflect on the creation of the heavens and the earth and pray, ‘Our Lord! You have not created all of this without purpose. Glory be to You! Protect us from the torment of the Fire’” ( Qur’an 3:190-191).

    We all have our dreams of what we want to accomplish and, if we are realistic, we set goals to achieve them. Yet, without belief in and worship of Allah, we will not achieve the ultimate purpose of our existence — a place in Paradise. “Have they not reflected upon their own selves? Allah only created the heavens and the earth and everything in between for a purpose and an appointed term. Yet most people are truly in denial of the meeting with their Lord!” (Qur’an 30:8).

    Reflecting on the Qur’an and its signs, and recognizing its origin from God

    “Do they not then reflect on the Quran? Had it been from anyone other than Allah, they would have certainly found in it many inconsistencies” (Qur’an 4:82).

    By reflecting on the Qur’an, the stories of past nations, the signs of God all around us, and the miraculous nature of the final Message, the believer is re-motivated to strive harder for God’s pleasure and eternal paradise. There is no greater purpose for the believer than true belief in God, submission to His command, exemplification of the Prophet’s model of Islamic living in worship, attitude, speech, and action, and the teaching of the Islamic truth to the world.

    Reflecting on the inevitability of death and what comes after

    “Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your full recompense on the Day of Resurrection. So, he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise, then surely he is successful. And the life of this world is nothing except the enjoyment of delusion” (Qur’an 3:185).

    The role of death in fulfilling one’s greatest potential cannot be emphasized enough. The awareness of human beings of their inevitable death, and the embracing and accepting of that reality that we are temporary residents of this earth, should motivate us to prepare for what comes after it.

    Too great an attachment to this worldly life makes the thought and reality of death very difficult, while wisdom necessitates preparation for what all human beings know is inevitable. Therefore, psychological escapism from the reality of death is unwise and futile, and it prevents an individual from attaining the greatest heights of self-actualization. While anxiety about death is not to be belittled, escapism does nothing for the one who wants to prepare and succeed in attaining Paradise. A man from the Ansar asked the Prophet (s) which of the believers is wisest. The Prophet answered, “The one who remembers death the most and is best in preparing for it. Those are the wisest” (Ibn Majah).

    Imagine, if you will, a man being informed of a pending hurricane and being provided instructions and a map to escape safely. Imagine if this man redirected and rechanneled his fear of the hurricane by distracting himself with mindless television, hours of streaming content, useless video games, and other worldly diversions. Does his escapism truly provide an escape from what is inevitable? Of course not! While the hurricane might veer on its course and miss the man’s house, no human being, regardless of his religious belief or earthly status, can escape death. It is an inevitable moment guaranteed for all human beings. Running from the thought of it does not stop it from manifesting in our lives. We are not meant to remain in this world. “Say, ‘the death you are running away from will inevitably come to you. Then you will be returned to the One who knows the unseen as well as the seen, and He will inform you of what you used to do’” (Qur’an 62:8).

    Reflecting on the temporality of this world and its insignificance compared to the afterlife

    Abu Dawood At-Tayalisi recorded from Jabir that the Prophet (s) said, “Jibril said, ‘O Muhammad! Live how you wish, for verily you will die; love what you wish, for verily you will part with it; and do what you wish, for verily you will meet it [your deed].’”

    By recognizing the temporality of this world, one’s efforts are redirected to greater purpose and potential. By keeping in mind the transitory nature of this life, we strive for that which is significant in an enduring way. We exert our efforts towards that which will be worth it in hindsight (in the afterlife). Self-actualization is to know that whatever you strive for in this life must be truly aligned with your greatest objective, which is a place in Paradise. In contrast, our potential is limited when we become overly attached to the things of this world. The significance of this world is in proportion to how much of it you use for attaining the reward in the afterlife — how much we make efforts for the sake of God, for establishing lasting continuous charities, for a beneficial and sincere legacy of good deeds.

    The Prophet (s) said, “What is the example of this worldly life in comparison to the Hereafter other than one of you dipping his finger in the sea? Let him see what he brings forth” (Muslim). One who dips his finger into any body of water sees how insignificant the few drops are compared to the sea or ocean. The temporality of this world and all that it contains of desires, comforts, and happiness is unimaginably insignificant compared to the eternal world of the Hereafter.

    Thus, the true home for the believer, and the source of motivation and the fulfillment of one’s potential, is the Hereafter. Allah says, “This worldly life is nothing but diversion and amusement. Verily, the home of the Hereafter is the true life if only they knew” (Qur’an 29:64). It does not make sense to confine our potential to goals that attach to this world with no investment in the life to come.

    Do not become attached to what is temporary. Do not become attached to what is a distraction. Attachments will make inevitable departure more difficult; attachments distract us from greater priorities, distort our expectations and grasp of realities, and cause us to become entitled and ungrateful. Attachments can become the source of future regrets and can shackle us to worldly desires and achievements. You are liberated in proportion to how much you submit to God and focus on the Hereafter, and your potential is increased in proportion to how much you are truly liberated. All people strive – and the greatest success is reserved for the one who strives for what is eternal.

    “Each person will have nothing except what he strives for. And what he strives for, he will come to see [in the next life]. Then he will be fully rewarded for it; and that to your Lord is the ultimate return of all things” (Qur’an 53:39-42). While we strive to unlock greater potential by seeking God’s pleasure and Paradise, we ask Him for well-being in this life; and we act out of that well-being consciously, for His sake, as a means of coming closer to Him and our ultimate objective.

    “Our Lord, give us goodness in this life and goodness in the Hereafter and save us from the punishment of the Hellfire” (Qur’an 2:201).

    Spending time in solitude and silence so as to engage in contemplation can lead to increased self-awareness, deeper understanding, and gratitude, as well as rewards and celebration on the Day of Judgment.